Frequently asked questions
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do next? Divorce coaching provides personalised guidance, emotional support, and practical tools to help you make empowered decisions. Whether you’re just thinking about leaving or navigating the legal and emotional fallout. I help you plan your next steps, manage stress, and avoid costly mistakes.
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It’s not just a breakup—it’s an escape from emotional chaos. I specialise in helping people disentangle from toxic and narcissistic relationships, I have over 20 years experience as a barrister in helping you escape and rebuild your life. You’ll learn how to recognise manipulation tactics, set firm boundaries, and protect your wellbeing (and your children’s). Whether you need legal protection or coaching strategies, I’ve got you covered.
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Yes. If your case ends up in Family Court, I offer full legal representation, particularly for high-conflict or complex matters. I also work with clients who want to self-represent but need guidance behind the scenes to prepare strong submissions or handle negotiations. I am also a fully qualified mediator and a collaborative lawyer as there are often other avenues for settlement that do not involve the Family Court.
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Absolutely. Whether you’re entering a new relationship, blending families, or protecting a business, a prenuptial agreement (called a “contracting out agreement” in New Zealand) and can provide peace of mind and prevent future conflict. I will help you craft one that’s legally sound and tailored to your needs.
📝 Let’s future-proof your relationship with clarity and care.
It’s not just about dividing things—it’s about protecting your future. In New Zealand, the law generally starts with a 50/50 split of relationship property—but that’s not the end of the story. The process begins with full disclosure of assets and debts and may also involve questions of spousal maintenance or child support. Many couples can reach a fair settlement with the right advice and support. Only one lawyer is required to draft a settlement Agreement in New Zealand then the other party can take it to their lawyer for signing.
Many couples use that system to save time, stress and money. Others, especially where there is family violence, may need to bypass direct negotiation and consider court proceedings. Mediation, collaborative law, can all help you avoid a courtroom battle—unless it’s truly necessary.
⚖ I help you understand your legal rights and guide you toward a smart, sustainable resolution—whether through drafting settlement agreements, coaching, mediation, or full legal representation.